在家长心中,要与孩子建立良好的依恋关系,就要尽可能地对他们好。这无可厚非。但是关系的建立需要双方的参与,那么孩子心里是怎样想的呢?妈妈生我时大出血,爸爸必须在我跟妈妈中选一个……每当我想到这些,我就觉得我不能让他们伤心。——陶乐乐,六年级 In the heart of parents, to establish a good attachment with their children, it is necessary to be good to them. This is understandable. But the establishment of the relationship requires the participation of both parties, so what is the mind of the child? Mom bleeding when I was born, and father must choose one of my mother ... Whenever I think of these, I think I can not let them sad. - Tao Lele, sixth grade