耐性既是一种先天性格,也包含后天的修养。我曾经在农贸市场看到这样一幕:一个肉摊前,一位五十多岁的老太太为了买一块肉,把肉板上摊主割好的十几块肉一一拿起来看,甚至看了好几遍,光挑选的过程足足用了四五分钟,而那位摊主——个脸膛黝黑的中年妇女却始终没有出声去制止。最终,老太太挑了一块一斤四两的肉走了,摊主又照先前的样子把肉一块块摆好。说实话,我当时站在一边都快看不 Patience is both a natural character, but also acquired training. I once saw such a scene in the farmer’s market: a meat stall, a 50-year-old woman in order to buy a piece of meat, the meat plate on the stalls to pick up a dozen good meat picked up one by one to see, Several times, the process of light selection took four or five minutes, and the stall owner - a middle-aged woman with dark-faced face never stopped to stop. In the end, the old lady picked a pound of flesh and four flesh away, and the stall owner set the flesh in the same way as before. To be honest, I was always on the sidelines