有能力的爱为人父母,心底一定爱自己的子女,这是毋庸置疑的。即使每一位父母教孩子的方法不同,他们的出发点也都是为了子女好。做父母确实不易。尤其是我们这一代父母,在自己的成长期里,也许从来没有好好尝过被宠爱的滋味,我们缺乏成长时最需要的鼓励和肯定,留在脑海中的尽是被打击、被否定的童年阴影。所以,“当日不曾被爱,今天亦不懂去爱”。这不是一个漂亮的 There is no doubt that capable parents should love their children and love their children. Even if every parent has different ways of teaching his children, their starting point is also good for their children. Parents really difficult. In particular, the parents of our generation may have never tasted the favor of being spoiled during their own growth. We lack the encouragement and affirmation which we need most when we grow up. What we have left behind in our minds is a blow to the neglected childhood shadow. Therefore, “the day has not been loved, do not know love today.” This is not a beautiful one