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美国心理学家B·布鲁姆发现:在高难度和竞争性领域的成功者往往与年少时和谐的家庭以及父母的热心鼓励分不开,在日后的成长过程中,父母和家庭始终成为其实现既定目标的强大动力。R·克拉克则在进一步考察了这种现象后证实;少儿阶段属低收入家庭的那些高成就的青年人同样与生活在“有效家庭”密切相关。克拉克提出的“有效家庭”的模式是如何的呢?笔者想就此做点简略的介绍: 一、“有效家庭”充满吸引孩子积极的生活情感克拉克认为,“有效家庭”中的父母具有乐观的生活态度和坚定的人生信念,面对任何困难都能泰然处之,他们互相支持、激励,对孩子从不流露悲观沮丧之态,相反,他们总是满怀豪情。对孩子来说,家庭正是自己避风遮雨的安全港湾。父母是无与伦比的保护神和引路人。因而,孩子在学校生活中就会表现出一种积极向上的精神面貌,为学习的成功提供了良好的条件。
B. Bloom, an American psychologist, found that winners in difficult and competitive fields tend to be inseparably linked to the harmonious families and parents’ zealous encouragement. In the future growth, parents and families always become Achieve the stated goal of a powerful driving force. R Clarke further examines the phenomenon and confirms that young children with high achievements in the children’s low-income families are also closely related to living in effective families. Clarke proposed “effective family ” model is how? I want to do a little brief introduction: First, “effective family” is full of positive emotions to attract children Clarke that “effective family ” Parents have an optimistic attitude to life and a firm belief in life, and can be emphatic in the face of any difficulties. They support and inspire each other and never show their pessimistic frustration to their children. On the contrary, they are always full of pride. For children, the family is just a sheltered safe haven. Parents are unparalleled protectors and guides. Thus, children in school life will show a positive and progressive mental outlook for the success of learning provides a good condition.