众所周知,孔子是中国传统孝道的系统阐发者和积极提倡者。不过,在孔子的思想观念中,尽管子女必须要担负起满足父母的衣食之需、使父母心情快乐精神愉悦的责任和义务,但这并不意味着在父母面前做子女的任何时候都必须无条件地逆来顺受。孔子曾经明确主张,父母盛怒之下作出不理智的举止,子女就应采取灵活的办法以免造成严重后果。在孔子看来,这样做才是真正的尽孝,否则便属愚孝。孔子斥曾参的故事是个很好的例证。 As we all know, Confucius is a systematic elucidator and active advocate of Chinese traditional filial piety. However, in Confucius’s concept of thought, although the children must shoulder the responsibility and obligation to make their parents happy and cheerful to meet the needs of their parents, this does not mean that they must be unconditional at any time when they are children in front of their parents Come and accept. Confucius once clearly held that irresponsible behavior should be taken when parents are angry and that children should adopt flexible measures to avoid causing serious consequences. It seems to Confucius, this is the real filial piety, or it is obscene and filial piety. Confucius denounced the reference story is a good example.