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gaowei&wang@sina.com问:我的女儿4岁,性格偏内向,胆子很小,在幼儿园里有什么要求也不敢提,经常因为不好意思跟老师说上厕所而尿湿裤子。我们跟她仔细沟通过,她也知道自己要主动说,但就是做不到。请问,这种情况如何处理才好?怎样帮助孩子打开心结?答:孩子的行为表现在很大程度上是由其气质特点(脾气秉性)所决定的。对于这样的孩子,家长一定要有意识地给她提供更多的接触各种环境的机会,鼓励她将自己的需求表达出来,并且有目的地进行训练,比如,她在某方面
gaowei&wang@sina.com Q: My daughter is 4 years old, her character is introverted and her courage is very small. I did not dare to mention any requirements in kindergarten. I often feel sorry to talk to the teacher while urinating my pants. We talked to her carefully, and she knew she wanted to say it, but she could not do it. Excuse me, how to deal with this situation is good? How to help children open the knot? A: The behavior of children is largely determined by their temperament (temper) decision. For such children, parents must be conscious of giving her more opportunities to access various environments, encouraging her to express her needs and purposefully train her, for example, she is in some ways