像案例上这位老奶奶为孙子要小奖花的现象,我也曾遇到过。所以,我会在小班幼儿入园前的第一次家长会上,把“小奖花”的教育作用以及如何运用情况向家长说明,要求家长不要向老师索要小奖花。因为索要小奖花,孩子就有依赖思想,不会靠自己努力去获得。不仅没有正常发挥小奖花的激励作用,反而使小奖花的作用“异化”了。 Like the grandmother in the case for the grandchildren to small prize phenomenon, I have encountered before. Therefore, I will explain to my parents at the first Parents’ Meeting before the entrance of children in small classes to parents about the educational role of “Little Jackpot” and how to use them. They should ask parents not to ask for a small bonus from their teachers. Because they ask for small bonuses, children have their own ideas and will not rely on their own efforts to obtain them. Not only failed to play a small incentive to play a normal role, but the role of small bonus “alienation ”.