有位同事常为其子学习成绩不佳而发愁。“我上学的时候,门门功课考第一,有时考九十分还难过得掉眼泪呢!哪象他呀,考七、八十分还满不在乎,成天不是鼓捣半导体,就是看历史小说,不拿考试当回事!照这样下去,怎么考得上大学?”于是母子之间时有争执。另一位同事,其子在普通中学读书,成绩为中上等。为了考大学有把握,他千方百计将孩子转入重点中学。不料各方面的紧张压力使孩子无法适应,成绩降到了下等,原来愉快开朗的孩子日渐烦闷孤僻,而父母仍一味催逼其学业,毫不留情。结果,竟逼得孩子走上了绝路。这两位家长都为孩子伤透了心。其实两个孩子都是不错的,正直,善良,勤快,有上进心,却不能使家长满意。这是为什 A colleague often worries about his son’s poor academic performance. “When I go to school, the first test of the door, and sometimes the test is also very sad to get it too! Where is he, test seven or eight also still care about, all day is not tampering with the semiconductor, is to look at historical novels, Do not take the test seriously! According to this way, how to test college? ”So there is a dispute between mother and child. Another colleague, whose son studied in a general secondary school, had a high school grade. In order to test the university, he tried his best to transfer his children to key middle schools. Unexpectedly, all aspects of the tension so that children can not adapt to the results down to the lower, the original happy cheerful children increasingly boring, and parents still blindly press their education, mercilessly. As a result, actually forced the child onto the path of ruin. Both parents broke their hearts for their children. In fact, two children are good, honest, kind, diligent, motivated, but can not satisfy parents. This is why