我不会鼓励人自找痛苦,但痛苦来临时,不妨想一想,它是否带着一些重要启示。梁伯是我的病人。他在内地出生,两岁的时候,父亲被入侵的日军开枪击毙。梁伯八岁生日那天,母亲营养不良,患肺炎去世。梁伯忆述:“每次找到食物,母亲只咬一小口,便把大部分给我。那时我真是太自私了,没有劝母亲多吃一点,只顾狼吞虎咽 I will not encourage people to find their own pain, but pain comes, may wish to think about whether it carries some important implications. Leung Pak is my patient. He was born in the Mainland and, at the age of two, his father was shot dead by the invading Japanese army. Leung Pak eighth birthday, mother malnutrition, pneumonia died. Liang Bo recalls: ”Every time I find food, my mother only bites a small mouth, then give me most of them .I was so selfish at that time, did not advise her mother to eat more, just gobble