一、注意倾听——建立师生对话平台在我们身边经常可以看到一些这样的教师,当学生成绩不理想或者犯错误的时候,根本不分析导致这种情况的原因,只是简单的训戒、责叱,埋怨学生不争气,然后讲一通大道理,告诉学生应该怎样做。根本不倾听学生的心声,只是一味的把自己的想法强加给学生。学生呢,要么默然以对,要么敷衍塞责,要么针锋相对,最后教师、学生都很生气,但问题依然得不到有效解决。有一位教育家 First, pay attention to listening - the establishment of a platform for dialogue between teachers and students can often see some of these teachers around us, when the student performance is not satisfactory or make mistakes, do not analyze the reasons for this situation, simply a disciplinary exercise叱, complain about students do not live up to expectations, and then tell the truth, tell students what to do. Do not listen to students’ voices at all, just impose their own ideas on students blindly. Students, either silently, or perfunctory, or tit for tat, and finally teachers, students are very angry, but the problem still can not be effectively resolved. There is an educator