舍得一词,最早出自佛经《了凡四训》。在讨论这个关键词之前,我们先要明确一个问题,那就是“你到底要什么?”明确了你想要的东西之后,你才知道你愿意舍弃什么。孟子说:“鱼,我所欲也,熊掌,亦我所欲也,二者不可得兼,舍鱼取熊掌者也;生,我所欲也,义,亦我所欲也,二者不可得兼,舍生取义者也。”舍生取义者终究成为万世后代的膜拜圭臬,舍得舍得,舍在先,而得在后,有舍才有得,小舍有小得, Worthy of the word, the earliest from the Buddhist scriptures “where the four training.” Before discussing this key word, we need to make it clear that one question is: “What exactly do you want?” After you have identified what you want, you know what you are willing to give up. Mencius said: “The fish, I want, bear’s paw, also I want, both can not be obtained, The two are not worthy of both sacrificial justice and righteous cause. ”The sacrificial righteous people eventually became the cult of the future generations of the world, willing to sacrifice their merits and give priority to them. However,