看到大家的讨论,我很高兴。一是感觉同学们很用心,查阅了很多资料,二是能结合生活实际进行辩证思考。同学们长大后,可能会跟父母发生冲突,虽然有时候父母也不正确,然而大多数的冲突是因为鸡毛蒜皮的事儿,却弄得父母心里头不高兴,儿女心里头往往也委屈。两代人动机都是好的,只是看问题的方式不一样。对于上述情况,孔子有这样的建议:“事父母几谏,见志不从,又敬不违,劳而不怨。”作为儿女,侍奉父母的时候,如果有意见相左的地方,甚至你觉得父 I am glad to see everyone’s discussion. First, students feel very hard, access to a lot of information, and second, can be combined with the actual dialectical thinking. When students grow up, they may clash with their parents. Although parents sometimes are not correct, most of the clashes are due to trivial matters, leaving parents unhappy and their children often wronged. Two generations of motives are good, just look at the problem is not the same way. For these circumstances, Confucius has such a suggestion: “When parents remonstrances, see no will, respect, labor without grudges. ” As a child, serve their parents, if there is disagreement, or even You think father