论文部分内容阅读
1.尊重孩子的人格。孩子是一个有思想、看法、需求、情感的独立的人。我们要正视他的存在,理解他的愿望,肯定他的努力,赞赏他的成就并给予他合法的权利,即使孩子的想法与你的想法发生冲突,我们也要尊重他的个性,不要强行为他做主。如果孩子的选择最后是错误的,对于他来说也比你为他选择好,至少他尝试过,并深刻明白自己的选择错在哪里。这样的尊重,对于孩子建立健全完善的人格非常有利。2.尊重孩子的情感。从大人的角度看孩子,会觉得孩子某些情感是不可理解的,其实,换个角度想,站在孩子的角度看大人,大人也经常无理取闹。二者虽矛盾,但并非不可以统一。只要你明白孩子的情感本来和大人不
1. Respect the child’s personality. Children are independent people who have ideas, opinions, needs and emotions. We must address his existence, understand his wishes, affirm his efforts, appreciate his achievements and give him legal rights. Even if the child’s ideas conflict with your thoughts, we must respect his personality and not be aggressive He is the master If the child’s choice is ultimately wrong, it’s better for him than you choose for him, at least he’s tried it, and he understands where his choices are wrong. This respect, for children to establish a sound and perfect personality is very beneficial. 2. Respect children’s emotions. From the perspective of adults, children may find that certain emotions of their children are incomprehensible. In fact, from another perspective, adults and adults often make unreasonable mistakes when standing at children’s perspectives. Although both contradictory, but not impossible to unify. As long as you understand that children’s emotions and adults have not