当我们面对一个处处照顾人、体贴人且从不抱怨的人,最好能够回以相对的肯定或鼓励。生活中,经常会碰到一些“依赖性”很重的人,凡事都不愿自己决定,只等着别人来替他做主,甚至完全没有自我,且缺乏责任感。通常这种依赖的习性,是因为受到过度保护所致,当他们随着年纪渐长而日渐独立,就会慢慢有了主见与自身的长远计划。可是有一些人,几乎没有受过家人的特别呵护或照顾,甚至根本被家人漠视,却始终对人 When we face a person who takes care of people, considerate people and never complains, it is best to be able to return relative affirmation or encouragement. Often, people in life encounter many “dependent” heavy people. Everything is unwilling to decide on their own. They only wait for others to be masters of their own. They even have no ego and no sense of responsibility. Often this habit of dependence depends on being overprotected, and as they grow older and become increasingly independent, they will gradually have their own long-term plans of foresight and self-determination. However, some people have received little or no special care or attention from their families or even ignored by their families. However,