责备是对孩子进行说服教育的一种手段。但是,如果成人在责备孩子的时候不选择适当的方式方法,往往会导致一些不良后果。下面的几种情况就是应当引起注意的: 1.在孩子游戏兴趣正浓时责备孩子有个男孩平时卫生习惯较差,喜欢玩石子、泥土块及沙子之类的东西。有一次他用砖头搭火车,母亲发现后,不问青红皂白地斥责道:“真没出息,谁让你玩这些的,快回去看画书……”孩子委屈地回了家,而母亲却发现地上用砖头搭的火车车厢里,有的装上了沙子,有的装上了石子,有的装上了“水泥”(沙泥土),也有的车厢还空着呢,其母这才觉察到孩子并没有在瞎胡闹,进而想到如果孩子玩完这个游戏一定会 Blame is a means of persuading children to become educated. However, if adults do not choose the proper method when they blame their children, it often leads to some unpleasant consequences. Here are a few things to note: 1. Blame your child for having a boy with poor health habits like playing with stones, clods, sand and the like. Once he used a brick to take a train, the mother noticed that he indiscriminately denounced: “Really disappointing, who let you play these, go back to the picture book ... ...” The child returned home, and the mother But found the ground with bricks to take the train compartment, and some fitted with sand, and some loaded with stones, and some fitted with “cement ” (sand soil), and some cars are empty, the mother of this Only aware of the child is not blind nonsense, and then think of if the child finished playing this game will