我实在不愿意责备孩子。他们来到这个世界上的时间太短了,一颗心那么小、那么嫩、那么纯,而世界是这样大、这样复杂、这样色彩斑斓,怎么可能没有一点儿判断错误、决策偏颇、反应失当呢?有许多许多事,经验会慢慢教会他,不用责备。我希望我的孩子不要在责备声中长大,因为我知道,那样会使孩子变得自卑、胆怯、畏首畏尾,处处看人的眼色行事,还谈得上什么创造、竞争、发展?不过话说回来,如果一切靠孩子自己去经验体 I really do not want to blame the children. They came to this world too short time, a heart so small, so tender, so pure, and the world is so big, so complex, so colorful, how may not be a bit of error, bad decision-making, improper response There are many, many things that experience will slowly teach him, without blame. I hope my children will not grow up in reproach because I know that it will make children feel inferior, timid, timid, always looking at people’s eyes and words, but also talk about what create, competition and development? But then again If everything depends on the child to experience the body