改变依恋类型代际传递的重要因素:心理化尽管依恋的代际传递不是简单的线性关系,但仍然会带来悲观论:不论孩子做什么,都无法改变父母依恋关系在自己身上的重现。幸好心理学的深入研究打破了这种悲观论。皮特·冯纳吉(Peter Fonagy),一位英国心理学家,提出了反思功能的重要性,即个体对自己和他人的行为做出解释时,不仅根据观察到的行为,还能根据潜在的心理状态,如欲望、感受和信念等来解释行为。反思功能强的父母更 An Important Factor in Changing the Type of Attachment Intergenerational Transmission: Mentalization Although the intergenerational transfer of attachment is not a simple linear relationship, it still leads to pessimism: no matter what the child does, it can not change the reproduction of parental attachment in himself. Fortunately, in-depth study of psychology broke this pessimistic theory. Peter Fonagy, a British psychologist, put forward the importance of reflective function, in which an individual interprets his or her own behavior not only on the observed behavior but also on the underlying psychological state , Such as desire, feelings and beliefs to explain behavior. Reflective parents more powerful