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1982年2月16日儿子3岁了,欢蹦乱跳、说说唱唱的怪讨人喜欢。爷爷、奶奶、伯伯、婶婶,谁见了他谁夸:“真乖,长大准能读大学!”过多的夸奖,在他幼小的心灵上打下了“看不起种田人”的印记。每当爷爷挑着粪担下田去,他就连声问:“爷爷,你大学考不上,该担粪,对吧?” 今天我又一次听儿子这么说,不禁想到,孩子正在长知识、长身体,模仿性强,可塑性大。如果一味夸奖他们而不指出他们的弱点,那时他们逐渐树立正确的世界现,学习掌握全面的知识、技能,培养、锻炼健壮的体魄,都是极其有害的。我催自己记下了《过奖无益》的感触,井告诉妻子和爹妈:注意管好自己的嘴巴!
February 16, 1982 3-year-old son, hilarious, talkative sing strange lovable. Grandpa, grandma, uncle, aunt, who met him who boast: “really good, grow up to read university! ” Too much praise, in his young mind laid “despised farming people ” Imprint. Whenever Grandpa lugs dung to go to Tian, he goes on to ask: “Grandpa, you can not pass the exam in the university, and you have to take the dung, right?” Today I heard my son say again and could not help but think that the child is longing knowledge , Long body, strong imitation, plasticity. If you blindly praise them without pointing out their weaknesses, then they gradually establish the correct world. Learning to master the comprehensive knowledge, skills, training, physical exercise, are extremely harmful. I reminded myself to write down the feeling of “no reward,” and told my wife and father and mother: pay attention to manage your own mouth!