王虹同学:你好!看到你的来信,我能体会你此时此刻的心情。依我看来,你应该认真分析事情的前因后果,寻找解开自己心结的办法,才能让自己快乐起来。你是否想过父母不让你参加同学生日派对的原因呢?我认为生日派对是在晚上,结束后回家的安全问题是父母最担心的。其次,父母也担心,这样的活动若成风,就会耽误学习。老师不是常说“业精于勤,荒于嬉”吗!在我看来,父母都是为你着想,他们是十分疼爱你的,只是你没有理解父母的心。如 Wang Hong students: hello! See your letter, I can understand your feelings at this moment. In my opinion, you should carefully analyze the antecedents and the consequences of things, find ways to solve their own knot, to make yourself happy. Have you ever wondered why your parents will not let you join the student birthday party? I think the birthday party is the night night when the safety issue of returning home is what parents are most worried about. Second, parents also worry that if such an activity prevails, it will delay learning. The teacher does not always say "In my opinion, the parents are for you, they love you very much, but you do not understand the heart of parents. Such as