一位心理学家在他的小女儿第一天上学时,附在孩子的耳畔说:“孩子,你要多多举手,就会成为一个有本领的人。”小女孩牢记父亲的叮嘱,老师提问时,她总是第一个举手。无论上什么课,无论老师所提的问题她是否真正理解,她总是不假思索地将手举得高高的。久而久之,她累积了许多不为人所注意的优先举手发言,令她在 A psychologist attached to the child’s ear during the first day of his little daughter’s school said: “Your child, if you want to raise your hand a lot, you will become a capable person.” "The little girl keeps in mind his father’s Told that when the teacher asked her, she always raised her hand first. No matter what class, regardless of the teacher’s question whether she really understand, she always thoughtlessly put his hand up high. Over time, she accumulated a number of unobtrusive priority gestures to make her speech