“人非圣贤,孰能无过。”尽管孩子有时说了些不切实际的话,但这并不妨碍他们成为诚实的孩子。我们要允许孩子犯错误,并能够给孩子改正错误的机会。“狼来了”的故事家喻户晓,大人们用这个故事教育孩子要诚实,但殊不知利用不当则会反其道而行。孩子说谎的现象绝不能忽视,这对孩子的成长至关重要,所以,对爱说谎的孩子要具体问题具体分析,及时正确地引导孩子改掉不良习惯。 “Although the children sometimes say unrealistic words, but this does not prevent them from becoming honest children. We want to allow children to make mistakes and to give children the chance to correct them. The story of ”the wolf is coming" is widely known. The adults use this story to educate their children to be honest, but they do not know that they will do so in the opposite direction. Children should not ignore the phenomenon of lying, which is essential for the growth of children, so love the specific problems of the child to a specific analysis of the problem, promptly and correctly guide children to get rid of bad habits.