孩子进入青春期以前,多愿意与父母亲近,父母通常是他们最先想到的倾诉心事的对象。但从十二三岁开始,情况完全相反。他们跟父母说的少了,若有心事,或是跟要好的小伙伴讲,或是写在日记本里,也许最后才和父母说,还不是毫无保留,而是看情形。 这是青少年成长过程中的常 Children into puberty before, and more willing to parents and parents, parents are usually the first thing they think of things to talk about. But from the age of 12, the situation is exactly the opposite. They say less to their parents, if they have the intention, either speaking with their good companions or writing in a diary, may finally say to their parents that there is still no reservation but a situation. This is the normal process of adolescent growth