破坏性批评是对孩子自尊心的无情剥夺。当孩子做错了事情,家长希望通过批评来使孩子改掉缺点,我们把他批评孩子的行为看作一个作用力。当这个作用力打在孩子的行为上,即你的批评针对是他的行为,孩子会朝你希望的方向去发展的。 Destructive criticism is the cruel denial of the child’s self-esteem. When the child does the wrong thing, parents hope that the child can be overcome by criticizing the shortcomings, and we regard his criticism of the child as a force. When this force hit the child’s behavior, that your criticism is directed at his behavior, the child will develop in the direction you want.