在幼儿园里,我们常常可以看到有这样一种孩子:害羞、胆怯、孤僻,沉默寡言,遇到有人听课,让他回答问题时.会嘤嘤地哭起来,不管问题有多容易,也不管自己能不能回答出来。平时也是一个人独自玩耍,从不愿多与人讲话,如果硬逼着他与人交往,则会表现出惶恐不安的样子。他们不愿意参加集体游戏,老师和家长称之为“不合群”的孩子。不合群的孩子性格内向、孤僻、不善与同年龄的伙伴交往,从表面看上去老实、听话、不惹事生非、也经常得到父母的肯定甚至赞赏。 In kindergarten, we often see such a child shy, timid, withdrawn, taciturn, someone listening to a class asking him to answer a question, crying miserably, no matter how easy the problem is or whether it is self Can you answer it? Usually a person playing alone, never want to talk to people, if forced him to interact with others, will show the look of panic. They are reluctant to participate in group games, children whom the teacher and parents call “unreconciled”. Inconsistent children introverted, withdrawn, poor and partners of the same age, from the surface look honest, obedient, do not make trouble, but also often affirmed or even praised the parents.