父母是孩子成长中最亲密的人,其言行和情绪都会成为孩子模仿和学习的榜样。乐观开朗、善于处理自己情绪的父母,能更好地帮助孩子建立安全感、自信心,提升孩子控制自身情绪的能力。反之,情绪反复无常、焦虑不安的父母,会让孩子无所适从,情绪不稳定,缺乏安全感。在家庭生活中,父母如果只关注教育的正确性和有效性,忽视对自己的情绪管理,轻则影响亲子关系,使教育的效果大 Parents are the children who grow up the most intimate, words and deeds and emotions will become a model for children to imitate and learn. Optimistic and cheerful, good at dealing with their emotions, parents, can better help children build a sense of security, self-confidence and enhance their children’s ability to control their emotions. On the other hand, capricious and anxious parents can make children feel at a loss, insecure and insecure. In family life, if parents only concerned about the correctness and effectiveness of education, neglect their own emotional management, ranging from the impact of parent-child relationship, so that the effect of education