家庭教育的一个误区就是父母不了解孩子的特点和需要，常常将自己的愿望和要求强加给孩子。父母根据自己的“美好想法”安排孩子的活动，结果使孩子与家长产生对立情绪，也使孩子失去了自我发展的机会，造成孩子角色认知的偏差。由于历史的原因，一对没有上过大学的夫妻，把生 One misunderstanding of family education is that parents do not understand the characteristics and needs of their children and often impose their own wishes and demands on their children. Parents arrange their children’s activities according to their own “good ideas”. As a result, their children and their parents are opposed to each other and their children lose their opportunities for self-development, resulting in the deviation of their children’s role cognition. Due to historical reasons, a pair of couples who have not been to college, a student