为我家打理花园的巴瑞今年27岁,他虽然只上过园艺职业学校,但这个阳光小伙生活过得相当殷实,对未来有着明确的规划。荷兰没有是个人就要削尖脑袋上大学这种风气。这里的父母当然都希望自己的孩子能充分发挥出个人的潜能,但在选择接受何种水平的学校教育上,他们更提倡量力而行,并尊重孩子的兴趣取向和对未来的选择。在这里你几乎看不到有什么人心切地望子成龙,深盼孩子有朝一日能“出人头地”。孩子今后能双脚踏 Barry, who takes care of the garden for my family, is 27 years old. Although he has only attended horticultural vocational schools, this sunshine guy has lived a solid life and has a clear plan for the future. The Netherlands is not the kind of person who needs to sharpen his head on college. Of course, parents here want their children to reach their full potential, but they are more likely to choose their level of schooling and respect their child’s interests and future choices. Here you can barely see what people are eager to build their horizons, and look forward to the children one day can “get ahead ”. Children can double-peddle in the future