我进中学那年就开始盼望独立,甚至跟母亲提出要在大房间中隔出一方天地,安个门,并在门上贴一张“闲人免进”的纸条。不用说,母亲坚决不同意,她最有力的话就是:我们是一家人。当时,我在学校的交际圈不小,有位姓毛的圈内女生是个孤女,借居在婶婶家,但不在那儿搭伙,每月拿一笔救济金自己安排。我看她的那种单身生活很洒脱,常在小吃店买吃的,最主要是有一种自己做主的豪气,这正是 When I was in high school, I began to look forward to independence. I even proposed to my mother to separate the world from each other in a big room, to secure a door, and to put a note on the door “idler free”. Needless to say, my mother resolutely disagreed. Her most powerful words are: We are a family. At that time, my communication circle in the school is not small, a girl named Mao’s inner circle girl is an orphan girl living in her aunt’s house, but she is not there to take part in a monthly grant with her own arrangement. I see her kind of single life is very free and easy, often in the snack bar to buy food, the most important thing is to have a pride of their own, which is