我本来想写的题目是:关于生活的种种。后来想想,也不全是生活。有时觉得,生活很大;有时却觉得,生活很小,小到不足以容纳我的所有。几日前,夜半读书,看到倪匡关于爱情的一个观点,大意就是说,爱情不是追的,它应该是男女之间自然而然产生的一种感情。“相爱了,来得迅速而自然,一见钟情,或一拍即合,或者可以形容一下那时的情形。其中的一方面,或者可能在开始时有一个短暂的矜持,不敢太过热烈地表达自己的感情。但这种矜持在汹涌澎湃而来 The topic I would like to write about is: All kinds of life. Later think about it, nor is it all life. Sometimes I feel that I live a lot; sometimes I feel that life is small, small enough to accommodate all of mine. A few days ago, at midnight, reading Ni Kuang’s view of love, the effect is that love is not chasing, it should be a natural feeling between men and women. ”Fall in love, come quickly and naturally, fall in love at first sight, hit it off, or describe the situation at that moment .One, on the one hand, or perhaps at the outset has a brief holdover that does not dare to express one’s feelings too aggressively But such support came in surging