小王是大学一年级的学生,一个文静的女孩。这天,她来到咨询室,刚坐好就紧锁眉头直叹气:“老师,我不知道为什么别人总冷落我?我们宿舍的人若一起外出,别人总是三人一群,两个一伙,只有我被落在后边;班上搞活动,大家都又说又笑,在一起很热闹,唯独把我晾在一边、让我感到很尴尬,也很孤独。可我这个人比较内向,不善交际,和他们没什么共同话题,况且他们谈的那些话题,我认为太浅薄,没什么实质内容。再说有些人我也看不惯……” 作为咨询员,我时常会接待一些和小王一样的学生,他们的问题大致相同:为什么别人总冷落我?为什么我总是和别人格格不入呢?原因究竟 Wang is a freshman college student, a quiet girl. On this day, she came to the counselor’s room and just sat up and locked her brow with a deep sigh: “Teacher, I do not know why other people always neglect me? If we go out together in our quarters, others are always a group of three people and two people , Only I was behind; classes engaged in activities, we all say and laugh together, very lively together, only to me aside, I feel very embarrassed and very lonely, but I am more introverted, I am too superficial and have no substance. I also can not understand how some people ... ”As a counselor, I often receive some of the same as Wang Students, their questions are roughly the same: Why do people always neglect me? Why do I always get out of touch with others?