怎样对待孩子的要求满足孩子的要求与满足孩子的需要并不都是一回事。对孩子所需要的,应尽可能慷慨地给予满足。而对毫无道理、无法实现或与他人的要求不相适应的要求应加以拒绝。例如,孩子想一次吃光一盒巧克力,就必须制止他,因为一次吃光一盒巧克力,对孩子的身体有害无利。再如,孩子想要一只狗,而你不愿意养狗,或无法在住宅内养狗,你就不能同意。遗憾的是,有的孩子能够得到他要求的并非需要的所有东西。有的父母因无暇和孩子在一起,却又要对孩子表示关心和疼爱,就拿送礼品作为替代。如果你缺少和孩子在一起的时间,无法给予孩子各方面更多的关心,就不要浪费时间去自感内疚,以送礼物来补偿。要知道,物质的东西替代不了孩子对爱的精神需要。试图通过送孩子各种东西来抓住孩子对你的感情,只会促使孩子向你要越来 What to do with your child’s needs Satisfying your child’s needs is not the same as satisfying your child’s needs. What you need for your child should be as generous as possible. Any request that is unjustifiable, unachievable or incompatible with the requirements of others should be rejected. For example, if a child wants to eat a box of chocolates at once, he must be stopped because eating a box of chocolates once is harmful and harmful to the child’s health. For another example, if a child wants a dog and you do not want to raise a dog or can not raise a dog in a home, you can not agree. Unfortunately, some children get everything that he does not need. Some parents because they have no time to be with their children, but also to show their concern and love children, take gifts as an alternative. If you lack the time with your child and can not give more care to your child in all aspects, do not waste your time feeling guilty and giving gifts to compensate. You know, material things can not replace the child’s spiritual needs of love. Trying to catch the child’s affection for you by sending the child a variety of things will only prompt the child to come to you more and more