1我的外甥于海曾经十分崇拜我。我是我们这个家族唯一混迹于官场的人。于海就是凭借我的关系,从一个没有文凭,也没啥特长的农村青年走进了政府机关。虽然那个部门很小,很微不足道,但对于一般人,想凭空进入,是件难于上青天的事情。但我做到了。我给一把手当办公室主任,办这点事,不是太难。可这也是我为我的亲属做的唯一一件事。人情也是资源,资源都是有限的,不能索取太多,还要留一些给自己用。比 1 My nephew in the sea once worshiped me very much. I am the only one of our family who has been removed from the officialdom. In the sea is by virtue of my relationship, from a no diploma, nothing special rural youth into the government agencies. Although that department is small and insignificant, it is difficult for the average person to want to enter without permission. But I did it. I give a hand as the director of the office, do this thing, not too hard. But this is also the only thing I do for my relatives. Human resources are also resources, resources are limited, can not ask too much, but also to leave some for their own use. ratio