沉默在家教中有其独特功效。如果父母亲能够恰到好处地运用沉默,便能对孩子传递出难以言表的丰富的信息,起到“此时无声胜有声”的教育作用。沉默用于暗示。根据少年儿童心理没有成熟喜欢模仿的特点,父母对孩子进行思想品德教育时,要求孩子做到的,就应该自己首先做到,在沉默无声的行为之中,给孩子以暗示,使孩子模仿父母的行为,形成良好习惯,从而收到“不令而从”之效。 Silence has its unique effect in tutoring. If parents can make the right use of silence, they can send unspeakable and rich information to their children and play an educational role of “voiceless at this time”. Silence is used to imply. According to the characteristics of children’s psychological immaturity like to imitate, parents of children’s ideological and moral education, the requirements of children to do, we should first do it, in the silent behavior, to imply that the child, so that children imitate their parents The formation of good habits, which received the “not from the” effect.