改革开放,带来了思想观念的大变化。当今,许多丧偶或离异的单身老人,不甘孤独寂寞,试图再找个老伴,牵手共度晚年。然而,一些老人再婚后的生活现状却并不令人乐观,再婚又离婚的现象也严重存在。据长沙市某婚姻介绍所统计,老人通过征婚方式获得再婚的成功率不超过10%,但离婚率却高达80%。老龄问题专家通过互联网,对20万丧偶和离异的单身老人进行的问卷调查显示,他们中再婚又离婚的比例高达30%以上。为何再婚老人中的离婚率这么高?导致他们再分手的原因是什么?面对再婚老人牵手难的问题,家庭、社会和老年人本身又该怎么办呢?但愿本刊这一期的策划报道,能对大家的思考提供一些启迪。 Reform and opening up brought great changes in ideological concepts. Nowadays, many single elderly people who are widowed or divorced are unwilling to be lonely and lonely. They try to find another wife and spend time in their old age. However, the living conditions of some elderly people after their remarriage are not optimistic. The phenomenon of remarriage and divorce is also serious. According to statistics from a marriage agency in Changsha, the success rate of getting remarried by marriage is no more than 10%, but the divorce rate is as high as 80%. A survey of 200,000 widowed and divorced single seniors by aging specialists via the Internet conducted a survey that showed that more than 30% of them were remarried and divorced. Why the divorce rate of the elderly in the re-marriage is so high? What led them to break up again? The face of the problem of remarrying the elderly, the family, the community and the elderly themselves how to do it? Reported, can provide some enlightenment for everyone’s thinking.