每个人都渴望被赏识,在成长的过程中,孩子需要别人的肯定与赏识,来战胜自己的恐惧与自卑,让心灵有一种安全感。马斯洛“需要层次”理论告诉我们:“人类除了最基本的生理、安全需要外,更高层次的需求就是对尊重的需求,希望得到他人的肯定和欣赏,得到社会的肯定性评价。”如果一个孩子生活在认可之中,他就学会了自爱;如果一个孩子生活在鼓励 Everyone is eager to be appreciated, in the process of growing up, children need the affirmation and appreciation of others to overcome their fear and inferiority, so that the soul has a sense of security. Maslow “level of need ” theory tells us: “In addition to the most basic physical and security needs of human beings, a higher level of demand is the demand for respect, hope to get recognition and appreciation of others, the social affirmative Evaluation. ”If a child lives in recognition, he learned to love; if a child is living in encouragement