一位叫贝加的教育家举了这样一个例子: 在中国某地方,几个小孩在一起玩,其中一个被另一个打了,被打的孩子哭着跑回家去告诉了妈妈,妈妈急忙赶来对“打手”吼道:你为什么打他?!你再敢打他,我就打死你。在美国也有这样的事,可年轻的妈妈跑来却心平气和地说,你为什么打他呢?你们不是好朋友吗?好朋友应该友好相处。 An educator named Bengal cited an example where several children are playing together in a certain place in China, one is beaten by another, and the beaten child runs home crying and tells Mom that her mother is in a hurry Rushed to the “thugs” roared: Why did you hit him ?! You dare to call him, I’ll kill you. In the United States, there is such a thing, but young mothers come in but calmly say why you hit him? Are not you good friends? Good friends should be friendly.