高考即将到来,家长的心态、家长的情绪、家长的信心都会直接或间接影响考生的心态,从而影响考生的发挥。为此,笔者建议在高考来临之前家长须做到“五要”、 “五不要”。“五要”一要情绪稳定。家长情绪稳定通过感染、暗示等心理机制,有助于考生稳定。家长情绪不稳定,心情紧张,不利于考生良好的心态的 College entrance examination coming, parents mentality, parents mood, parents’ confidence will directly or indirectly affect the examinee’s mentality, thus affecting the candidate’s play. To this end, I suggest that before the advent of the parents to be “five to ”, “five do not ”. “Five to ” One to emotional stability. Parents emotional stability through infection, suggesting that other psychological mechanisms, to help candidates stability. Parents emotional instability, nervousness, is not conducive to a good attitude of the candidates