有这样一个画面:一家人围坐在餐桌旁吃饭,父母把鱼头给了年逾古稀的爷爷,把鱼尾给了年过花甲的奶奶,把味美的中间一段分给了孩子。对于这对父母的做法,我不敢苟同。也许很多家长认为给孩子吃好的、穿好的就是爱孩子;可我觉得如果家长们只一味地让孩子养尊处优,而不注重在物质生活和精神生活上给孩子多方面的锻炼和教育,这并不是真正的爱孩子,而是害孩子。 There is such a picture: a family sitting around the table for dinner, the parents gave the head to the age-old grandfather, the fish tail to the year-old grandmother, the middle of the delicious section to the children. I can not agree with the parents' practice. Maybe many parents think that children are good to eat and wear is to love children; but I think that if parents only blindly allow their children to be pampered, rather than focusing on physical and mental life in children to a wide range of exercise and education, which Not really love children, but harm children.