如果我告诉你,沉默,对于交流大有裨益。你会信吗?可能大多数人都不会赞成我的话。事实上很多人认为,沉默根本就不能算是交流。但实际上,沉默,是一项非常有效的交流手段。交流的目的就在于传递信息,而沉默有时候比任何言语的效果都更好。你也许曾经听说过93%的交流都不是语言上的。这个数据是源于阿尔伯特·梅拉宾博士的一项研究。他发现在交流中只有7%的信息是通过语言传递的,而剩下的则是通过语调、音量、面部表情、手势、身体语言和类似的非语言因 If I tell you, silence, for the exchange of great benefit. Do you believe it? Most people probably will not agree with me. In fact, many people think that silence can not be regarded as an exchange at all. But in fact, silence is a very effective means of communication. The purpose of communication is to convey the message, and silence is sometimes better than any speech. You may have heard that 93% of conversations are not linguistic. This data is based on a study by Dr. Albert Merapin. He found that only 7% of messages were communicated through the language while the rest were through intonation, volume, facial expressions, gestures, body language, and similar nonverbal causes