孩子来到这个世界上,并没有带着一本说明书。于是,养育孩子便自然成为一段找寻各种答案的旅程。每个人找寻的方式各不相同:有人喜欢阅读,有人愿意倾听朋友分享经验,有人更乐意自己观察思考。比如我,喜欢读书,但要说哪本书解决了哪个具体的养育问题,我肯定记不得。但我还是乐意不断地花时间阅读,重要的不是读到什么具体的技巧,而是建立并不断完善思维的方式。 Children come to this world, did not bring a manual. As a result, raising children naturally becomes a journey to find answers. Everyone looks different ways: Some people like to read, some people are willing to listen to friends to share experiences, some people are more willing to observe and think on their own. For example, I like reading, but to say which book to solve which specific parenting problem, I will certainly not remember. But I am still willing to spend time reading, the important thing is not to read what specific skills, but to establish and continue to improve the way of thinking.