教育家苏霍姆林斯基曾说:“一刻也不能忘记:只有当孩子热爱你时,他才愿意成为你的学生,而只有当他信任你时,他才会热爱你。”这是一代教育家经过长期教育实践,诉诸笔端、警戒后来教育者的箴言。这句话很深刻,越端详、越品味、越寻思,越觉得鞭辟入里、振聋发聩。的确,现实中教师冷酷无情打击学生的情况时有发生,漠然无视冷落学生的现象更是层出不穷,如此对待学生的教师,学子们又怎会 Educator Sukhomlinski once said: “I can not forget for a moment: he would love to be your student only when he loved you, and he would love you only when he trusted you.” Is a generation of educators after long-term education practice, resorted to writing, alert educator's motto. This sentence is very profound, the more detailed, the more taste, the more pondering, the more whipped into, deafening. Indeed, in reality, the situation where teachers are mercilessly fighting students has occurred. It is even more common for students to indifferently ignore the phenomenon of neglecting students. How can students and teachers treat students like this?