观察自家孩子的成长与心理发展,是一件很有趣的事。 就拿我女儿来说吧,从4～5岁开始,到如今12岁,其自尊心的发生发展大致走过了“情绪型自尊”自卑型自尊”“自大型自尊”“自勉型自尊”这4个过程。 记得最早是孩子4岁时的一个早晨。她醒来穿衣服时突然不高兴了:“为什么总让我穿(表)哥哥、(表)姐姐的旧衣服呀,人家说我不像女孩儿!”当时我也没细想,便训斥道:“这么小就知道臭美了!别事多,快起 Observe the growth and psychological development of their own children, is a very interesting thing. Take my daughter for example, starting from 4 to 5 years old, and now 12 years old, the development of self-esteem has generally gone through “emotional self-esteem” self-esteem, “self-esteem, self-esteem self-esteem 4 process.Remember the earliest is a child at the age of 4. Suddenly she was awake when waking up and wearing clothes: ”Why always let me wear (table) brother, (old) sister’s old clothes Yeah, people say I do not Like a girl! “At that time, I did not think carefully, then reprimanded:” So little to know the beautiful!