一个不轻不快的划动,一根火柴被点亮。风怜惜那纤弱的生命,便不顾地冲灭那一星火苗。可火柴的价值就在于燃烧,风扼杀了它生命中的闪光点。爱虽然是伟大的,但过分的给予爱,会扼杀其本身的价值,因此我们应该学会怎样去爱。傅雷作为一位严格的父亲,对自己的儿子疼爱有加。但他不会替儿子解决问题,而是帮助告诉他解决问题的方法。真正 A not inconsiderate paddling, a match is lit. Pity pity that fragile life, they desperate to destroy the star flames. The value of a match is to burn, and the wind stifles the glitz in its life. Although love is great, giving love too much will stifle its own value, so we should learn how to love. Fu Lei, as a strict father, loved his son. But he will not solve the problem for his son, but to help tell him the way to solve the problem. real