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《社会》1985年5期发表李阳春撰写的“未婚大女的爱情心理”文章。文章说未婚大女的爱情心理是由她们的社会地位所决定的。其社会地位有4个优势:即知识的优势,政治的优势,经济的优势和舆论的优势。接着考察了未婚大女的生活经历和特征。认为有四个特征:1.由于她所爱过的男子是个负心郎,使她尝受了失恋的巨大痛苦。2.在兄弟姐妹中享有特殊地位。3.起居饮食的单调性和刻板性。4.精神上有意无意地接近了宗教和禁欲主义。至于未婚大女的爱情心理,一般说来,有九个方面的表现:1.强烈的自尊心。2.异常的母爱心。3.半信半疑的迷信思想。4.不明晰的丈夫标准。5.对风流男子的不信任感。6.对男青年的过分的关心。7.对性生活过敏的羞耻心。8.变相的爱情寄托——忘情工作的心理。9.对真正爱情的执着期待(但已不渴望)与珍视
“Social” 1985 5 issue published by Li Yangchun “Love unmarried woman” article. The article said that the love mentality of unmarried elders is determined by their social status. Its social status has four advantages: knowledge advantage, political advantage, economic advantage and public opinion advantage. Then investigated the life experiences and characteristics of unmarried sisters. Think there are four characteristics: 1. Because she loved the man is a negative, so that she tasted the great pain of lovelorn. 2. Have special status among brothers and sisters. 3. Monotonous diet and stereotypes. 4. Spiritually intentionally or unintentional access to religion and asceticism. As for unmarried women’s love psychology, in general, there are nine aspects of performance: 1. Strong self-esteem. 2. abnormal motherly love. 3. Doubtless superstitious thinking. 4. unclear husband standard. 5. The romantic men’s sense of trust. 6. Excessive caring for young men. 7. Shame on the sex life ashamed. Disguise of love sustenance - Forget the psychology of work. 9. Determined to love real (but no desire) and cherish