很多家长和我探讨孩子的合群问题,苦恼于自己的孩子没有朋友。多数情况,这都是因为家里的规则和社会的规则不相符。有一次,许多人一起去吃饭,出来的时候,我三哥朋友家12岁的男孩不知道在哪里拿到一个气球,自己托着玩。三哥的女儿曼曼看见了,跳着脚哭起来:“我也要气球,我也要气球。”三四个人同时喊那个男孩,让他把气球给曼曼。那个孩子很喜欢曼曼,他很高兴地把气球拿过来了。 Many parents and I discuss the child’s gregarious problem, distressed to their children without friends. In most cases, this is because the rules at home and the social rules do not match. Once, many people went to eat together, and when they came out, my 12-year-old boy, a friend of my brother and brother, did not know where to get a balloon and asked for help. Third brother’s daughter Manman saw, jumping feet cried: “I want the balloon, I also want the balloon. ” Three or four individuals at the same time shouting the boy, let him give the balloon to Mann. The boy liked Mann, and he was happy to get the balloon over.