两个人争论、吵架,如有第三者在场,双方都会请他帮忙,或是请他评理。春秋战国时期,韩、赵两国发生战争,双方都派使者到魏国借兵但魏文侯一口拒绝了。两国使者没有完成任务,怏怏而归。当他们回国后,才知道魏文侯己分别派使者前来调停,劝告双方平息战火。 The two argued and quarreled. If a third party were present, both parties would ask him for help or ask him to comment. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, there were wars between South Korea and Zhao. Both sides sent envoys to Wei to take military service but Wei Wenhou refused. The envoys of the two countries did not complete their tasks and returned. When they returned to China, they learned that Wei Wenhou had sent messengers to mediate and advised both parties to calm down the war.