近年来,由于家庭结构的日益“核心”化,孩子在家庭中受到的关爱实在太多,而引导他们付出关爱的机会、措施则太少。致使孩子不懂得与别人一起分享食物、不知道关心父母、不了解父母工作及家务劳动的辛苦,很少想到别人的需要。他们习惯于为所欲为、有求必应的生活,以至染上了自私、任性、缺乏同情心的毛病。 In recent years, due to the increasingly “centralization” of family structures, children have too much love in the family and too few opportunities to guide them in caring for their love. As a result, children do not know how to share food with others. They do not know how to care for their parents and their parents ’work and housework. They rarely think of others’ needs. They are accustomed to doing whatever they want and have the necessities of life, as well as being selfish, self-willed and lacking of compassion.