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[批评孩子时,孩子老顶嘴怎么办?] 我认为首先有一个更新观念问题。在一些家长看来,子女顶嘴就是对家长的不尊重,为此应严加惩处,以免重蹈覆辙。殊不知,孩子犯了错误,做了错事,总会有这样或那样的多种原因,只有让孩子把事情发生的前因后果讲清楚,为自己辩解,家长才能了解事情的真相,从而对症下药。况且会顶嘴的孩子,大多善言,家长如果允许他辩解,并在他辩解后与之论理,不是能逐渐培养孩子的据理力争能力和分析解决问题的能力吗?家长何乐而不为呢!
[When criticizing a child, what should the child do when he talks?] I think there is a problem of updating the concept first. In the opinion of some parents, if the child turns a deaf ear to his parents, he does not respect the parents and should be punished severely for fear of repeating the same mistakes. As everyone knows, the children made a mistake, did a wrong thing, there are always many reasons for this or that, only to make things clear what the antecedents and consequences of the incident, to justify themselves, parents can understand the truth of the matter, to remedy. Moreover, the child who speaks up, most of the good words, if parents allow him to justify, and justify him after his defense, is not able to gradually develop their children’s ability to reason and to analyze and solve problems? Why not parents? !