“和我婆婆真难沟通呀,说什么她听着都不顺耳……”很多媳妇一说起婆婆都会头大,在她们心里,婆婆简直像侏罗纪时代的人,再小心说话也会冷不防地得罪她。其实,总结一下,婆婆最听不得的话有三类,只要能巧妙改变说辞,很多争吵都能避免于无形中。“妈,您不懂……”在处理家务事或者照顾小孩子时,年轻媳妇最常说的怕要数这句话了。也许有些事她确实不懂,但这并不影响她拥有自己的儿子和孙子。而你的一句“您不懂”却完全把她排除在整个事件之外,不亚于明明白白地告诉她:“你什么都不知道就别掺和了。”所以不妨改称“妈,请您告诉我……” “Hard to communicate with my mother-in-law ah, saying she did not listen to hearing ... ...” a lot of wife talk about her first wife will be big, in their heart, her mother just like the Jurassic era people, and then be careful Will offend her coldly. In fact, to sum up, there are three types of mother’s most unheard-of words, as long as cleverly change the rhetoric, a lot of quarrels can be avoided virtually. “Mom, you do not understand ...” The words most often used by young wives are often scared when dealing with housework or taking care of children. There may be something she does not understand, but it does not affect her own son and grandchildren. Your sentence “You do not know ” completely excludes her from the whole incident, as much as she tells her plainly: “You do not know what you do not blend. ” So may wish to rename “Mom, please tell me ...”