真正的沟通应是在平等基础上进行的,教师既要做学生的良师,又要做他们的益友。但要真正做学生的良师益友,并不是件容易的事情。这要求教师能够认识自我,正视自我,在学生面前真实地展现自我,不扮演“完人”的形象,完成与学生的有效沟通。基于以上认识,笔者认为一个教师必须做到以下几点。一、勇于承认错误尽管人人都知道“金无足赤”“人无完人”的道理,但作为老师几乎都有这样的心理:不想在学生们面前暴露短处,不能 Real communication should be based on equality. Teachers should not only be mentors of students, but also be good friends for them. But to truly be a student mentor, is not an easy task. This requires teachers to recognize themselves, face themselves, show themselves truly in front of students, do not play “perfect ” image, complete the effective communication with students. Based on the above understanding, I believe that a teacher must do the following. First, the courage to admit mistakes Although everyone knows that “gold ” “” no person "truth, but as a teacher almost all have the psychological: do not want to expose the weaknesses in front of students can not